Friday, August 25, 2006

Now I know how Yuki feels


For those of you caught unaware, Yuki is the name of my cat. I say "my" loosely, as I have not seen this particular kitten in over a year now. He is residing in the great city of Chicago, and for that I am excessively jealous this week. You see, Yuki is a special needs cat. At least that is what the nurse at the kitty shelter told me. Turns out my furry black friend is an amputee. I won't tell the sad saga that is his early life, be happy to know that he is probably the luckiest cat in the western hemisphere at this moment.

I allude to the cat because Yuk used to have attacks of phantom limb. He would often sit on the floor, hike up his stump and shake it vigorously, in an attempt to scratch his ear. It nearly made me cry the first time I saw, and I would dive across the room to take the place of his foot and scritch it for him. Many people found it amusing, but to me it was devastating. The only way I could think to stop it would be to give him a peg leg, or perhaps a whisk leg. I didn't want a traumatized AND embarassed cat, so I decided against prosthetics.



The past few days I have had a similar feeling. My best friend left Japan several days ago and I feel rather like I lost a limb myself. I keep reaching for my keitai to tell him about something hilarious that happened, knowing he would appreciate it. Last night was the worst, though. I stood up in bed, searched around the room for him, even looked on the balcony for him, and as I opened my sliding doors to search the kitchen and bathroom, it hit me. He is not here. I know I was half asleep, but I was really confused and sad.

It doesn't help that I have very vivid dreams. Sometimes I wake up and don't know where I am, or crying about something I can't remember. The phantom will fade with time, I suppose. But there is something almost comforting and justifying in feeling it.

4 comments:

Mochi the pineapple head cat said...

I'll be back in your arms again, love.

gretel said...

thanx mochi, if only it were true

Emily said...

I know this is intended to be melancholy, but it was also the most hilarious blog I've read in weeks. You get an A.

We parents of retarded cats need to stick together. In lieu of attaching a whisk to my cat to compensate for his particular deficiency, I just kick him in the head repeatedly while he purrs with glee. Does this make me a bad person? Please advise.

gretel said...

yeah, em... you are mostly going to hell. Na... but seriously Mochi is adorable in his pineapplehood. Wallop him one for me!